5 ways to keep little irritations in marriage from exploding
In one of the greatest love poems of all time, King Solomon commanded, “Catch for us . . . the little foxes that ruin the vineyards”
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How couples can argue as a team
Getting angry is natural, and when you’re married to someone - you often have plenty of shared things to get angry over.
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Secrets of a happy marriage
Shaunti Feldhahn shares a few surprising secrets of highly happy marriages.
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The art of marital negotiation
Every conflict in your marriage is an opportunity to fall more deeply in love.
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You complete me
If you grew up during the 1990’s, you might recall one of the “hottest” romantic movies of that era—Jerry Maguire. For those of us who’ve seen the movie, who can forget the cheesy, lovey-dovey line delivered by none other than Tom Cruise? During what may be the movie’s most memorable scene, Tom Cruise enters, looks intently at Rene…
Are you prepared for “the money talk”?
“Honey, we need to talk." This sentence is generally not one you ever want to hear in a relationship. Except when it comes to money.
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The KISS approach to marriage
When conflicts arise, making a marriage work can seem incredibly difficult…even impossible. Though emotions become intense, heated, sad, fearful, or even avoidant, don’t despair. These are all clues that you and your spouse really care! If you didn’t care, there would be very little emotion. Many couples, however, don’t know…
The gift of acceptance
Aimee and John were arguing even as they entered my counseling office. Aimee announced, “I just found out John’s been smoking again. I can’t believe it. What’s wrong with him?” It was John’s turn to blast Aimee. “She treats me like I’m 15 years old. I know smoking is not good for me. I don’t smoke in the house and I don’t smoke when I’m around…
Is there marriage after kids?
Is it true that being a parent can be hazardous to marriage?
The science of being charming
He walks into the room. You immediately notice. Something about him draws you. He pulls you into conversation and commands the attention of the people around you. You walk away and think, “I like him and enjoyed his company.”
Break the complaining habit
You had a crummy day. Not much went right and you are exhausted. You find yourself in a Grinch mood. As a result, the rest of the day is spent complaining and venting.
Keeping secrets
A patient told me, “I have kept a secret from my husband. But if I tell him, it could end our marriage.”