On The Road
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I don’t wait anymore
When her expectations didn't pan out, she discovered that God's plan was far better than hers.
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Relationships
Being “in hate”
There are many reasons why people find themselves in this negative state of emotion.
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Loving your literal neighbor
Loving our literal neighbors can present us with opportunities to build relationships, and share the love of Christ in our communities.
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How to support the singles in our midst
We can support the singles in our churches by creating an environment that is welcoming to all believers, regardless of their marital status.
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Why hate is so dangerous
Hate, just like love, is mind-altering. How can we tell if we're "in hate," and how can we stop the vicious cycle?
He said, she said — should we say?
Gossip is like a secret craving. You might not like it, but when you hear or are a part of it, you do not want to stop.
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Community that works
How can the church effectively love and serve others in our community?
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Serving singles in the church
Practical advice on how the church can love and support the singles in our midst.
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Signs of codependency
When your identity comes through another person then you may be at risk of a co-dependent relationship.
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Relational discipleship
For many of us, isolation and self-protection describe our lives. But to grow deeper with God and others, it often requires us to be relational beings.
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The science of being charming
He walks into the room. You immediately notice. Something about him draws you. He pulls you into conversation and commands the attention of the people around you. You walk away and think, “I like him and enjoyed his company.”
Break the complaining habit
You had a crummy day. Not much went right and you are exhausted. You find yourself in a Grinch mood. As a result, the rest of the day is spent complaining and venting.
Keeping secrets
A patient told me, “I have kept a secret from my husband. But if I tell him, it could end our marriage.”